When Music Says What Words Can’t

 

Personal Reflection

Introduction:
Some kids don’t talk much, but they feel deeply. I once taught a little boy who rarely spoke, but music opened a door into his emotions that words couldn’t.

1. Music That Moved Him
Whenever we played a sad tune, he’d grow quiet and teary. But when we switched to something upbeat, he’d burst into laughter or start dancing. His feelings came alive through music.

2. Finding Calm in Sound
There were tough days too, when he seemed overwhelmed or shut down. But all it took was a soft lullaby to help him settle. The right song always seemed to find him.

3. Listening Differently
That experience changed how I teach. I stopped just focusing on notes and started paying attention to feelings. Music became our way of having a conversation that didn’t need words.

Conclusion:
Music can be so much more than a subject we teach. For many children, especially those who don’t speak easily, it’s how they tell their stories, show their feelings, and feel understood.

🗨️ Have you ever seen a child connect emotionally through music? Let me know in the comments. I’d love to hear your experience.

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